The Rev. Kelly Flood is director of advancement for the Starr King School for the Ministry. She lives with freelance writer Neil Chethik in Lexington, Kentucky, with their son. Learn more about Kelly Flood on UUA.org. By Kelly Flood A clear alternative: The UU relationship Neil Chethik, Kelly Flood 3/1/1999 Applying Unitarian Universalism's Seven Principles to our romantic relationships.